August 25, 2010

Picture time!


Our sweet friend took some pictures of our little family a couple of weeks ago, and these are some of my favorite shots.  We had a less-than-cooperative toddler this pleasant Sunday afternoon (what should we have expected from her without a proper nap?), but Sarah still managed to eek out a few sweet shots of her.  Shanna, if you're reading this, that dress you bought for Emily is so incredibly darling...


... and last, but not least (drumroll please) my favorite:
Yes, she broke that stick over her knee.  Precious Memories :) 

Hard to forget...

...this outfit.  It was one of my favorites when Elyse wore it, and it's still one of my favorites now that Emily can wear it.  I dressed her Sunday morning and just had to shake my head in awe of how fast these days are going.  Seems like yesterday!  Elyse's picture was taken when she was 3 months on the dot, and Emily's picture was taken at 3 months and a few days.  As you can see, Elyse wins in the tummy department, but Emily is definitely winning in the cheek department.  Sisters :)


Elyse Noelle


Emily Mae

August 24, 2010

and she's UP!

Yes, as you MIGHT have guessed from the title, Elyse is walking.  Beeauuuutiful.  Finally.  We are SO happy that she has decided that walking on her feet is way more fun than crawling or walking on her knees.  Love it. She start taking "chances" about 6 weeks ago, and she's slowly progressed into walking (or toddling) around the house at leisure with a stumble or two.  Again, I love it.  I never in my wildest dreams thought that my little girl would wait so long to walk, but it's been fun to see her do this on her own.  No matter how hard I tried to encourage it, she was determined to make it something she would do in her own time, thank ya very much!  I perhaps would have picked an earlier date, but I'm so happy that she's now movin' right along.  Here she is cruisin' around with a good book...


Anyway, enough of that reveling.. Elyse is ALSO 20 months old today!  I didn't think I'd have too much more to report as far as this age goes, but there are some new fun things.  Elyse's hair is getting very long (you'd never know), which makes for some nasty knots & messy tangles.  We get through, but it's not always pretty.  She is outgrowing her glasses, so we really need to figure out where to hunt down some more teeny specs...  She is really enjoying her dirty laundry basket (which has been sorted to contain only semi-dirty clothes.. I promise)... it's bizarre, but she loves to sort the clothes and identify what each item is and who wore it.  She does the same thing when I fold laundry.  We were wondering why she started cussing, but it seems that she's actually attempting to say "shirt."  Hmm...  She loves to stack her books & gets very frustrated when they aren't perfectly aligned.  I'm SO tempted to hide any puzzles (she gets severely angry when she can't get them solved), but I'm determined that she's going to figure out how to chill soon enough!  She is putting words together, and it's fun to hear the mishmash of sounds that come out of her mouth.  She loves to come with me to get Em up from her naps, and she usually says "get Emmie" as she toddles behind me.  Once she gets to her bed, she pulls up as far as she can and yells "Emmie" at the top of her lungs.  What a pleasant awakening for Emily.  I can hardly believe she's on the road to AGE TWO.  But for now, here are some of my fun's and not-so-fun's for this stage:

fun's:

* I love watching her try to figure out something.  It's so fascinating to see a little person learn!
* Elyse loves to go on walks- I get such a kick out of hearing her say: "Mommy, CAR!" or "Mommy, Buurd!"
* She loves to point out our facial features, even during the most serious of moments.  It's SO hard to keep a straight face!!
* She can make the happiest "I'm innocent" face EVER.  Wow.
* I love that she'll still rock with me before bed & asks me to keep singing when I stop.  Maybe I should have her hearing tested?
* One of my favorite moments this month was in the car a few weeks ago.  I was sitting in the back with her trying to coax her into napping... I was playing with her hair as she settled down, and when I stopped, she looked up at me and said "more, please?"  *sigh*
* I love how she's still addicted to Daddy :)
* Elyse is cracking us up with the way she has been pigging out on her food.  The other night, she ate a WHOLE sandwich, almost a cup of peas, almost a cup of grapes, and plenty of craisins for dessert.
* Her eyes light up when I give her a cookie in a way I never thought possible :)  That's my girl!
* I love watching her interact with Emily when she doesn't see me watching.


not-so-fun's:

* Still working through tantrum issues... YUK.
* It's REALLY hard to teach a little person how to be nice, you know???
* The word "no" can turn from polite to evil in about 2 seconds.
* Again, seeing her get so frustrated with toys :)  Okay, it's kind of funny, but I do feel bad sometimes :)
* She wants so badly to play with the big kids, so I'm hoping she gets proficient in this walking-thing quickly!
* Her eye teeth started cutting 6 weeks ago, and they're STILL not through!  OWW.



Elyse, we just love you to pieces.  I hope I always remember the adorable way you look up at me when we read together & the way you smell after your bath.  You'll always be my baby girl!
You just keep charming us :)

August 19, 2010

3rd month's the charm.

Happy 3 month birthday, Emily!  These months have been crazy, but oh, so fun.  Emily is just charming, I might add.  I forgot how fun this age is.  Smiles everywhere, more interaction with surroundings, still small enough to cradle and cuddle, etc...  Fun, fun.  Emily doesn't seem to be growing like a weed, necessarily, since she still seems small to me.  She is definitely different from Elyse in that department!  I still remember digging into bigger clothes for Elyse pretty early on.  Emily is content to wear her baby clothes comfortably, and I'm really not sure how much she weighs right now.  Maybe 12 lbs?  She's my sweet little peanut.  We have settled into a comfortable routine, and I'm enjoying the fun each day brings.  Emily is still taking some naps in our room, but her evening and night sleep (as well as early morning) is all in her crib. . . ALL under the watchful eye of big sister.  Actually, I've had to cover the foot of Emily's crib with a blanket so nosey big sister won't stand at the edge of her own crib and yell for "Emmie" to wake up.  Yes, the joys of sharing a room :)  Then there's the random night where they compete in a yelling competition.  THOSE nights are fun!  I have learned to relax and let them work it out, and now, most evenings are pretty peaceful.  Elyse loves having Emily in there, and she will often ask for her first thing in the morning.  Emily enjoys having Elyse in her face (surprisingly), and she loves to give her big smiles and "talk" to her.  Elyse loves pointing out Emily's facial features (not too carefully, I might add), and she seems fascinated by her new little friend.  Emily is napping well, but she still usually can't make it more than 40 or 45 minutes after the time she gets up from the last nap!  Whereas Elyse found her thumb early on, Emily loves to chomp on her fist and usually ends up finding her index finger knuckle to chew on.  She seems to be enjoying her surroundings, and I've found that she'll stare for a long time at toys we place in front of her.  She hasn't rolled over since her first episode a few weeks ago, and I'm okay with that!  Vacation the first week of August brought back EVERY night feeding (yippee!!), but thankfully, she's back on track doing 8.5-9.5 hours a night.  I was starting to fear for my sanity.  Here are some of my fun's and not-so-fun's for this age:

fun's:

* I love that she'll search me out with her eyes, even if she has to look around for a while :)
* She crinkles up her little nose like a bunny when she smiles.
* Her cooing is getting louder and MUCH more dramatic.
* She is SO close to giggling but just can't quite get it out.
* I love watching her kick around like CRAZY when she's on her back...
* I love watching her little head bob around like a woodpecker when she's on her tummy :)
* Her 2nd chin is getting SO fat.  It seriously is taking up half of her face at times.
* She can hardly finish a meal without grinning from ear to ear!
* Her hair is getting so thick, and it hardly stays down at all these days.

not-so-fun's:

* It's not as easy for Em to sleep soundly just anywhere these days...she prefers a BED.  Makes going out a bit more challenging!
* She is now giving us her messy diapers about 9 or 10 days apart.  Holy cow.
* Her poochy lip is incredibly pathetic.  I'm so pathetic, I actually delay a nap once in a while if she pulls that one out.  I can't take it!
* Do I detect a bit of a temper when bedtime comes these days?  Surely not.
* Hiccups still haunt her- maybe only a few times a week, but she still despises them!
* My baby's getting big :(







We love you to pieces, Emily Mae!  Keep smiling, and we will, too!

August 15, 2010

Happy Birthday to you!

He's faithful, loving, patient, gracious, kind, gentle, strong, resourceful, hard-working, creative, caring, compassionate, merciful, bold, energetic, industrious, sacrificial, humble, joyful, curious, persistent, generous, and he's all mine.  Happy birthday to the love of my life.  I'm so thankful for you!
  
Don't worry, J, we're still cool, even if this is our last year in our twenties...  

August 11, 2010

Vacation!!!

There's LOTS to love about vacations!  There's time with my girls, time with their daddy, time with my parents, time with my siblings (including their spouses), time with sweet nieces, time with great grandpa, no cooking, no cleaning, no cloth diapers, no schedule, lots of food, lots of fun, lots of sun, lots of babysitters, ...  Yep, there's lots to love.  
See?  This little love bug enjoyed it!


So did her big sis...


I got to spend lots of time with my honey with no "gotta go to work"s to interrupt us...


Grandma and Grandpa got lots of hugs and kisses in...


Emily finally got a break from the grind of life... 


And this pumpkin had lots of fun, new experiences.


Yes, there's lots to love about vacation.  Next year can't come fast enough.

July 29, 2010

RICH

I am having quite a "feel thankful" day today, and I'm amazed again at all of the simple pleasures in life that God gives us to enjoy.  I started the day being awakened by two happy little girls (yes, that means my husband again coaxed me to sleep in... maybe I'll be sad when Em starts sleeping through this last feeding!), and their sweet smiles in the morning cannot help but remind me of God's precious gifts.  I enjoyed conversation with a thoughtful, loving husband over coffee at breakfast and could not help but think about the preciousness of our marriage.  I watched Elyse light up as she discovered how to say new words, and I was impressed with the thought that this precious stage is so short, and I get to enjoy every minute with her.  I couldn't help but smile as Emily scrunched up her little button nose as she grinned at me after spitting up everywhere, and I determined to enjoy every minute of vacation with this precious family of mine next week.  It's easy in this stage of life to assume that things could or would be so much easier or better with just a bit more money or a bit more time...  It's easy to forget that God's gift to us in the form of Jesus Christ is all we need to begin with.  These precious moments I have with my family are sweet reflections of the joy I have in Christ and the richness I have in knowing Him.  So, as I sit here on the couch unable to nap during the 2.5 hours my thoughtful girls gave me today, I am reminded of this precious passage... and I am determined to enjoy the wealth of God's grace.

As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy.

1 Timothy 6.17


Ahh....  I hear a little stuffed lamb rattling in Elyse's crib, which means: game on.  
Off I go to enjoy 2 of my favorite gifts in life.

July 24, 2010

News on Elyse

Well, today is Elyse's 19 month birthday.  This month has been a busy one for Elyse.  She has been learning all sorts of fun things, and it's shocked me again and again how quickly little kids pick up EVERYTHING.  Scary.  On a FUN note, Elyse is finally getting interested in walking!  No, we're not there yet, but she is taking steps and enjoying it.  We have a large floor pillow that we put in the center of the living room floor, and that has become our "practice" area for walking.  Unfortunately, Elyse has learned to end each of her walks towards the pillow with a belly-flop :)  Yep, that can get painful!  It's hilarious to watch such a "big" kid learn to take steps, but she is having the time of her life, and we're enjoying the show.  She likes to say "rea-by, set, GO!" as she takes off, and she laughs hysterically when she falls (most of the time).  Yes, it's pretty much a game to her, but that's okay!  She seems to enjoy the challenge.


She's also into asking "Utzzat?" of everything she points at.  Though she knows 90% of what she's asking about, she's still curious for some reason :)  Maybe she's suspicious of us lying to her?  Her vocab is expanding, but much of it is still hilariously "off" and many words end with a "wee" of some sort ("rayree" for raisin, "wawee" for water...) Her newest observation is that everything is "hoT."  Yes, emphasis on the "t."  That has kept Elyse from enjoying much of her food.  If it's not hot, it's "coal" or "worm."  The couch is hot, books are hot, and even Mommy is hot.  Why, thank you, Honey!  She likes to point out & identify doors, fans, lights, butterflies, raisins, water, blueberries, milk, cake, pie (she is no longer naive about desserts), Emmie, blankets, cheerios, grapes, cars, keekee's (for cats), nose, eyes, mouths, tongues, ears, hair, .... I'm not going to bore you any longer.  She also identifies certain things as "yuk," but I won't go into those things.  The word "please" has evolved from "up" to "more" to "pea," and I literally hear that ALL day.  She also does the sign for "more" as she says it.  She asks me for things she can reach herself, but, hey, at least she's polite!  For the last day or so, she's been saying, "Mommy, Daddy, Emmie, Shiloh..."  We might have to break the news to her that her cousin Shiloh is not her brother...  She is also VERY vain.  She loves to have things put in her hair, and I'll find her looking in the bathroom mirror at herself, saying "Elee" and laughing at herself.  Oh, dear.


Elyse is constantly being reminded to "obey" during the day, and it makes me laugh so hard when I see her approach something she's not supposed to touch, and she'll immediately look over her shoulder and yell "obey!"  Granted, it doesn't always keep her from not touching it, but I'm encouraged that she might actually think about her decisions :)  She is still in the habit of confessing when she is doing something wrong... she'll usually say, "mommy?" and get me to catch her as she pulls out all the wipes or throws food on the floor.  Ugh.  She loves to have us sing to her (heaven knows why), so our car rides these days would have SERIOUSLY embarrassed us about 10 years ago.  Yes, we're the schmultz family as we serenade our toddler with the most ridiculous songs.  Ahh, parenthood...


Elyse still loves to read her books, and every once in a while, we catch her jabbering to herself, but for the most part she is content to just flip through pages in silence.  Last time she was at the doc, she weighed just over 24 pounds and was 32.5 inches tall.  I've had to start putting conditioner in her hair to keep it tangle-free, and even that doesn't work :)  She has grown out of her morning nap, but we still pull it out on special occasions...very "special" occasions.  If she doesn't take a catnap in the morning, she usually has about an hour to rest in her crib and listen to a cd.  She had another visit to the ophthalmologist last week, and her eyes are looking just fine.  No changes in her prescription, so we'll see the him again in January.  We may have to hunt down some bigger frames for her glasses, though (not fun), since I can tell she is quickly outgrowing these frames!  Emily has become very interesting to Elyse, and she knows she's only allowed to kiss her.  It really tortures her, but most of the time she resists the temptation to pinch her legs or hit her head... Hmm... what am I missing...  Daddy is still the hero, and I hope that never changes!  Oh, Elyse has been quite picky these days with food, and that's a disappointment.  She'll randomly ban certain foods for a few days, but most of the time, she'll come back to them if I keep trying.  She's having a hard time with meat.  She has 12 teeth and just cut three of her four eye teeth (I believe- she won't let me examine...).  Wow, this was an incredibly boring post to anyone other than Grandmas, but I know I need to record these things somewhere, and it's much easier to type this out than sit down and write it somewhere!


Elyse, you make us laugh ALL the time.  This new stage you're in is hysterical to me, but we're praying that someday you learn more than just obedience to Mommy and Daddy- we want you to grow up to love Jesus and learn what real happiness is!
We love you, Elyse!!!

July 21, 2010

Little Swimmer



Okay, more like little floater... or little cutie pie that hangs on us in the pool.  
We spent a nice morning at a friend's pool, and Elyse loved when 
Daddy would drag her around like this.
And this.
Mommy especially enjoyed hanging out in the water since today's temperature was almost triple digits.
AND we have not yet braved the beach with our two little kiddos.  
*GASP**WHAT?!?*  
Yes, I know, we're wimps.  This was a great way to ease us in :) 
Emily enjoyed the view from her lounge chair...
...we shared lots of giggles and splashes...
...and kisses.
And it's mornings like these that I think:
I am blessed.

July 19, 2010

TWO.

Months. old.  WOWzers.  My little baby is getting pudgy & reminding me that she won't be little forever.  *sigh*  In many ways, I still can't believe I have a second baby, and in other ways, I feel like we've always been a family of four.  Emily is as sweet as can be.  Something "clicked" with her at about 6 weeks, and she is enjoying a much better routine & sleeping at night.  So far, we've only worked up to a 7 hour stretch at night, but I'm not complaining. I do get a BIT jealous when I hear of all these new babies sleeping 8 (yes, even 12) hours within the first 8 weeks or so, but I will be thankful for whatever Emily gives me over 5 hours :)  We've moved her in with Elyse for bedtime, and that transition seems to be going well *knock on wood.*  She doesn't fuss at all at night, and we're working on getting the fussing down to a minimum for her naps during the day.  As a newborn, Em very much resembled my baby pictures, but NO LONGER.  She definitely seems to be favoring her daddy these days :)  He's so cute, I don't mind.  Here's the scoop:

fun's:

* she's smiling at anyone who will look at her... right after she's eaten :)
* she's into raising her eyebrows in a little flirty look & smirking, too...
* Emily just started cooing, which pretty much melts me
* I love seeing how her legs and arms are getting chubby
* she seems to have a twinkle in her eye much of the time
* she will still choose to be cuddled any ol' day as opposed to being on her own
* it still takes her at least two attempts to truly sneeze
* she LOVES her baths, still, and loves to be naked :)
* diaper changes are also a very fun time, not just for obvious reasons... she loves to squirm all over on the changing table and grin like crazy.  Not, I might add, like her big sister who desperately needs to be potty-trained (after she walks, of course...)  heehee....
* seeing Emily adore her daddy
* I'm enjoying being with her during that midnight feeding now that I'm more rested... I love seeing her little eyes look around and seeing her give me big smiles as I put her back to bed...

not-so-fun's:

* we're at that stage where a dirty diaper comes only once or twice a week.  UGH.  Merry Christmas to whomever discovers that mess!
* I'm having a hard time thinking of other not-so-fun's.....
* okay, here's one: seeing Emily next to one of the newborns at church.  WHAT?!?  She's huge!
* moving her to the crib was kind of hard... kind of...
* I left her in the church nursery for the first time yesterday... Can't say I will do it next week because I missed holding my baby!  Then again, I didn't have to try to justify that any bodily noises coming from my chair were Emily's....  Maybe she should stay in there :)



We love you, Emily Mae!
Thanks for allowing us to kiss
your chubby cheeks all day! 

July 14, 2010

Lessons Learned

I'm taking it easy tonight now that the noises in the other room have ceased, and my mind is wandering to the way our lives have changed over the last eight weeks.  Sure, I'd been told numerous times that this change of adding a new little person to our family would be a crazy ride, but there's nothing like first-hand experience.  The first month we had with Emily is kind of foggy, but I do remember being tired :)  Now that Emily is kindly sleeping at night & giving her mom a nice stretch of sleep, those memories fade even more.  I've definitely been stretched during this phase of life, more than ever before.  Going into this, I really thought that I'd remember everything I learned with my first baby.  Sadly, I found that my mommy-memory was a bit foggier than I expected it to be.  Here's the short list of the things I've had to learn again:

* ALWAYS have a clean diaper ready for the switch-a-roo.  I should have learned this lesson after Elyse blessed me on several occasions with the "insta-pee."  Seriously, how do they go just when you move the diaper?  I'd love to know.

* This rule is pretty valid: if baby is crying, she is probably either hungry, tired, or messy.  At the beginning, I was so motivated to get this girl sleeping soundly that I often discovered a nasty diaper after trying to soothe her to sleep for an hour.  DUH.  

* Change baby's diaper before or halfway through a midnight feeding.  Changing baby will typically WAKE HER UP when she is only a few weeks old.  As with Elyse, the lightbulb came on one night when I couldn't figure out why Emily was so awake after eating.  DUH.

* Unless you are fortunate enough to have a baby who doesn't spit up, a burp cloth must accompany the baby everywhere.  The second that you place your baby on the couch or the bed without it, she will spit up.  Keep in mind, if you place your baby on the couch or bed with the burp cloth, she will probably not spit up.

* If for some reason you can plan your day around taking a nap, baby (or her big sister) will almost always wake up just as your head hits the pillow.  Similarly, when you get up to retrieve your baby (or her big sister), your baby (or her big sister) will often go back to sleep just as you approach the bedroom door.  By this point, napping is no longer an option since you are wide awake.  If, on the other hand, you have no expectation of napping on a given day, you will often find that your baby (and her big sister) will unexpectedly leave you a large portion of the afternoon to do with as you wish.  In that case, DROP EVERYTHING and nap.

* You know the most common piece of advice you get when you're a new mommy: nap whenever you can - the laundry (dishes, cleaning, etc...) will wait?  Well, it is true.  Not only will it wait, but it will rise up and bite you.  Hard.  If you don't get a grip sooner or later, you will end up wearing the same pair of dirty pajamas for weeks.  

I'm sure I'll be able to post more lessons learned as I go, but for now, that's enough.  And, since a post would not be complete without a picture, here's a picture of the two little reasons that I love being a mommy:



Seriously, this is the best job ever.

July 9, 2010

Surprise!


We looked out our kitchen window yesterday morning to find this new little pastime for Miss Elyse!  My thoughtful neighbor passed it on to us since her grandkids are all too big for it.  Elyse loves her new "swoo!"  She quickly figured out how to keep herself in motion, which practically tips the swing over.  I wish you could see the excitement mixed with fear in her eyes as she waits to see if the teetering will stop :)  SO, Daddy might have to figure out how to anchor this thing securely into the ground!  I only wish I were small enough to sit next to her and pass the day away  :)  

This progression...







... makes Mommy smile.
BIG time.